tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-32378599824816640412024-02-19T23:38:55.923-08:00My cup runneth over...abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.comBlogger55125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-55287067525177006482014-01-09T12:34:00.001-08:002014-01-09T12:34:51.197-08:00Contentment amidst the chaosRoaring fire. Coffee. Napping toddler right upstairs. Sweet sleeping baby right next to me. Husband at home. Pretty perfect moment.<br />
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All moments are not like this. That's what makes this so special. Last night as we were on our way to church I just took a deep breath and thought "Whew..that was a crazy 20 minutes." My next thought was, "No way I would want to go back to constant calm where we had all the time in the world to worry about just ourselves."<br />
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I love this crazy life!!!<br />
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As many people know we became an instant family of 4 the day after Christmas. We have been in the process of adopting internationally for 20 months now. It's a roller coaster of peace, frustration, impatience, trusting God's timing, and all under the theme of "waiting". We have been so anxious for our family to grow at so many points in this journey. We've dreamed of hopping on a plane to meet our children and imagined brining them into our house and letting the beautiful chaos ensue as we look at each other and say "They're finally home." Those are still our thoughts and dreams. We are still pursuing international adoption. However, amidst the waiting and the trusting, God sent us a sweet little blessing wrapped in a blue blanket with our adoption agency's name on it.<br />
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We didn't jump on a plane to bring Wyatt home. We drove a few hours and went to Target just before meeting him. The journey to Wyatt was 9 days. From one e-mail where we learned about him to the day we brought him home. We had about 36 hours of notice when we found out he was coming home! We got the "Yes" e-mail just after Santa Claus jumped back up our chimney.<br />
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I was all ready to make some awesome New Year's resolutions and run a really fast half marathon in April and read like 100 books, learn a language…who knows. Today my goals were to empty the dishwasher, wash some bottles, do laundry and drink a lot of coffee. And I couldn't feel better about what I am doing. We watch a lot of movies in this house right now, we eat a lot cereal, but my husband bakes things like cheddar bacon scones sometimes and he's a serious diaper changer.<br />
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I'm now typing and holding a baby. My better half is making cookies. The other night our power went out while Ryan was on a formula run and I was giving two little boys a bath. We clean our house and then it explodes at least 6 times a day. We've moved to being a "pot of coffee a day" family--Keurig just couldn't keep up.<br />
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We don't have a glamorous life. We don't go to fancy restaurants. We don't have cable. We barely have the Internet. But, we have an exciting life and we know God has many adventures awaiting us.abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-88601183010694442542013-11-25T13:03:00.000-08:002013-11-25T13:03:40.075-08:00Hysmith UpdateAaaaaannnnnddddd…..We're back!<br />
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Life has been crazy, busy, wonderful lately and at this moment I drinking my afternoon coffee and it is quiet. Like all the way quiet. Only the click of this keyboard and the sound of light rain on the metal roof. It smells like fresh baked sourdough rolls in the kitchen and my husband has the whole week off for Thanksgiving. Right now I'm operating at about 110%. I am truly thankful for this moment on this Monday.<br />
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This moment however is just a tiny snippet of the way things in our life though. Since we moved here in April we have accomplished a lot.<br />
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<li>Building a house and barn, moving in, unpacking, hanging approximately 7 things on the walls, and making this place HOME</li>
<li>Starting a new job (Ryan) and almost making it through the first semester already!! Being a teacher is fun because you get to divide each year up into semesters and look forward to long breaks</li>
<li>Becoming potty trained (Brody-hopefully that was obvious). I'd like to thank the Elmo Potty Book for potty training my child. After a few days of reading it 30 times a day, Brody requested big boy undies and has basically been potty trained ever since. </li>
<li>Breaking a finger. (Ryan) Intramural football, watch out for guys wearing shorts with pockets. </li>
<li>Read a million books (Abby). I love being able to text Ryan and say-can you go get me X book from the library today..and my library gals always have great suggestions for me too, and let me be the first to read new books. :) </li>
<li>Trained (almost) for our next half marathon-St. Jude Memphis in less than 2 weeks!</li>
<li>Sped up their running considerably (Abby). Running with Ryan and Papa (Ryan's dad, Brody's Papa, my fabulous father-in-law) can make a girl much faster, as nice as it is for them to run circles around me, I prefer not to be such a wimp</li>
<li>Run 3 5k races and gotten some medals and personal records! (All of us)</li>
<li>Planted a garden. We planted the garden and built a fence early this summer and we were able to harvest a few things but we have a great plan for next year…which may work better since we actually live here this time. </li>
<li>Become obsessed with things like beekeeping (Ryan)</li>
<li>Become obsessed with keeping mice out of our home (Abby)</li>
<li>Hosted 20 people in our home</li>
<li>Hung out with some really sweet college kids</li>
<li>Made a lot of great new friends</li>
<li>Have lived with very limited internet capabilities since August</li>
<li>Have no cable, no Netflix, no Hulu, just an antenna that miraculously gets us the Titans games and a free movie library at Freed Hardeman. Henderson also still has a movie rental store that we frequent.</li>
<li>Built some fires in our wood burning fireplace</li>
<li>Cooked some great food and some edible food</li>
<li>Watched deer running in our field</li>
<li>Gone on runs around our property</li>
<li>And just generally, we have enjoyed life! </li>
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We love our home and feel so blessed to have been able to build it while we are young and can grow our family in this house. Speaking of growing a family..here is an update on our adoption…</div>
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Moving to Henderson did not really delay our adoption process in any way because when we decided to move we still had not received a referral of children. If we had gotten our referrals while we were still in our rental house we probably would have just had to do a home study update for that home and a home study update for the house we were building once we moved in and just hope that it all worked out time wise. When we moved into the house we built they came and looked at our house so they could update our home study and we changed our address on our immigration approval. </div>
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So here we are, all ready to be a mommy and daddy again to some sweet little babies. Our house was built, our paperwork was ready and we are just waiting for a call….Well we got a call but not the one we were hoping to get. First, let me say that we believe that our adoption agency is the absolute right agency for us to be with. We trust them, they are open with us, they are easy to work with, they handle things in a Christ like way, and they are advocates for orphans and do everything they can to bring families together. The children are their first priority. </div>
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We learned a few weeks ago from our agency worker, who's been so great to us, that right now our agency (this is not an Ethiopia countrywide issue) cannot process adoptions from Ethiopia. They took over an agency that is in Ethiopia and have done some really good things to get that agency working more efficiently and helping more and more children. Every few years all agencies have to renew their licenses with Ethiopia and when they went to do that and change the name of the agency they got stalled. Their license is NOT being renewed right now, so basically they cannot operate in the country with no license. There is no way of knowing when they might renew the license, if they ever do, and the words that Ryan wrote down when he was on the phone were "expect significant delays in Ethiopia" and "not optimistic about them renewing our license". So clearly, not the news we were hoping for or,to be honest, not what we were praying for at all, right?</div>
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Our hearts were so broken over this delay for so many people. Our agency, the families waiting, us, and of course the children. I am glad that Ryan decided to have the conversation with our agency because at the point of learning all this secondhand from Ryan I was a basket case for all of the reasons just mentioned. Some selfish reasons and many unselfish reasons. The second part of the conversation was slightly more hopeful though…</div>
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We had a few choices at this point. 1.) Just sit tight and pray for Ethiopia to renew the license or for our agency to possibly reapply in the spring and just start from there 2.) Leave our dossier (paperwork file) in Ethiopia and also look into starting the process of adopting from another country that our agency works with.</div>
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We chose option 2. We have dreamed about our children from Ethiopia and prayed for them daily. But we don't feel it is the best use or our time, money, and faith to just sit and wait when God might be providing other avenues. We aren't giving up on Ethiopia, but at the root of this journey was the fact that we wanted to adopt. And right now the path we chose to go down is blocked, so we are taking another path at the same time and we will see which one leads to this house being a little louder and a lot more filled with love. </div>
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The country we decided to go with is a little bitty country called Lesotho. It is pronounces "le-soo-too" or "le-so-too". To find it on a map, look at South Africa and then look at one of the little countries that is right in the MIDDLE of South Africa. That is where we have paperwork heading. I'm going to be honest, I'd never heard of it before that day. Like, we had to look up how to pronounce it. It's a new program for our agency and has not been a big program in the U.S. at all previously. We are praying to help that change. Our agency is the only agency that works with Lesotho right now. So there was a pretty small chance that we would come to know about this country and then have the opportunity to adopt from there unless God had something to do with it. There are a ton of adoption agencies out there that we could have chosen and you would drive yourself insane to sit and wonder what would have happened if we had picked a different one. So we trust that when we prayed about our agency choice that those prayers were answered and that God will bless this scenario. </div>
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Basically we are waiting for our paperwork to go to Lesotho and then be on the waiting list. If we do get referrals from Lesotho (probably in 6 months to a year) then we will only have to travel one time but it will be for about 3 weeks. We do not know which path (Ethiopia or Lesotho) God will continue to lead us but we are just waiting to see which one progresses. </div>
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Whichever country our children are born in we will love it because of them. We will learn as much as we can about it and it will become part of our family. When we started this journey we felt led towards international adoption so we are going to continue down that path, as we still feel like that is our calling this time. We have no idea what the future holds but if you ask either of us, I think you would learn that we plan on our family growing for quite awhile. Though you may get a different definition for "big" family from each of us. :)</div>
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We are SO ready to meet our little ones and right now we have NO CLUE when that will be, where we will be traveling to, how old they will be, or ANYTHING!! We just know that God knows and that has to be enough. When we stepped onto the rocky ship that is adoption we knew that the waters were gong to be rough. All you have to do is read a blog or talk to someone and learn that it is NOT smooth sailing. But we are trusting God and we are weathering the storm.</div>
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Please pray for our adoption. In whatever way you feel you should, because sometimes I am not quite sure not he specifics of it myself. But most of all, pray for our children, their health, their sweet little hearts, their birth families, our agency, government workers, all families around the world who are waiting on little ones and all children who need a family, no matter where they live. </div>
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abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-52444651201820790922013-04-22T10:20:00.001-07:002013-04-22T10:20:01.665-07:00The moveWell we survived the big move! We said goodbye to our sweet house in Nashville and hugged our friends with a "see you soon" attitude. The loading of the truck was complete by 10:45, thanks to some really helpful and strong friends. Ryan drove the biggest Uhaul you can get an Brody and I drove in our van. We pulled into our new home with plenty of daylight left. Moving day wasn't very painful. Especially since we didn't even unload the truck that day! We stayed with Ryan's parents for 2 days while we got things settled. We had the truck unloaded by 1045 am the next day and quickly tried to make it into a home. <br />
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We have great neighbors, it's a great location, and I'm pretty sure this rental house is larger than our Nashville house so there is plenty of room! <br />
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Here are some things we've been up to since we got here...<br />
-we went to makin music at FHU on Saturday night. Brody LOVED it!! He's been saying, "go makin Music again?"<br />
Sorry buddy, it's gone till next year- "makin music gone?" He'll fit in at freed just fine! Being at Makin Music also made Ryan and I so excited to be a part of freed hardeman- it is such a special place!! <br />
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-we planted potatoes, asparagus, blueberry bushes, corn, watermelon and cantaloupe out at 'the farm!" Brody loved dropping potatoes in the holes and he tried to eat the corn , "my eat this?" We stayed out there until about 9, with Brody planting in the dark in the amazing weather one night! Loving country life!! <br />
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- my parents came to visit and we went to a park and to Chickasaw state park- so much fun at both throwing rocks into he lake and feeding ducks Cheerios <br />
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- Brody has been slightly crazy!! He skipped a lot of naps and stayed up late a bunch but he slept till almost 9 yesterday morning (church here is at 9:30 rather than 815 like we are used to!) and he took a 4 hour nap and we had to wake him up for evening worship- our Sunday night was much better than Sunday morning :) which may or may not have involved Brody and I going to the car for 30 minutes!! Ha- thanks for those who checked on us and made me feel better by letting me know that they'd been there too! Last night and today he's been awesome and happy and back to his old self!! <br />
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- we went back to Nashville and closed on our house very painlessly. We packed up the shed and all the random items we had left inside in the dark while Brody slept in the pack n play in his empty room... This was the most depressing part of moving!!! We also slept on a non-blown up air mattress in an empty room. <br />
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- then we went to Chattanooga to have a fun baby shower for the hortons and sweet baby Neely Jane!! It was so great to see old friends!! <br />
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- now we are in Henderson and we officially live here!! No strings attached anywhere else. This weekend we've had two great times spent with friends here in town and Brody is settling in!! He asked to go back to bible class about 100 times yesterday. <br />
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Thanks to those who have let us know we will be missed in Nashville and to those who have welcome us with open arms here in Henderson! God has blessed us with so many precious people. <br />
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Oh and we don't have the Internet or anything so I typed all this from my phone, so don't read too closely! abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-16826670781755866082013-03-25T18:44:00.000-07:002013-03-25T18:44:41.186-07:00Chapter NextIn this family we love analogies. You can usually hear them being used every few minutes around here. We think its a pretty good way of expressing one's self. Jesus did it, so it must be a pretty good way of communicating, right?<br />
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Many people like to say that life is like a book or a story and each part of your life is just another page or another chapter. I don't know when exactly chapter ONE ends and two begins, etc. So I am not really sure what chapter I've been living recently. But I do know that these 3 little Hysmiths are about to begin a new chapter...</div>
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We are moving to Henderson, TN. Home of Bell's hamburgers. some good West TN barbecue, Kid President, my sweet in-laws and the reason for our move-Freed Hardeman University. I am so proud to share that Ryan is taking a job as the instructor of finance at FHU.<br />
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We are SUPER sad to leave our really great friends in Nashville. I am really going to miss story time at the downtown library. Whole Foods is a little to far from Henderson and that bums me out just a little because I really LOVE Whole Foods. My family will be a bit further away and an extra 2 hours on the drive is never something you desire.Our church family is beyond loving and supportive to us here in Nashville and it pains us to leave them. Our sweet little house that we literally made into a home with our bare hands is going to be very hard to say good-bye to. But God has blessed us incredibly as we have prayed about and thought about this decision. He opened many doors for us and we would be crazy not to walk through them!! Especially since this is our heart's desire.<br />
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A few weeks ago we started getting our house ready to put on the market. We weren't 100% sure about the move but about 90% sure at that point. Someone we went to school with happened to be looking for a house in our area, in our price range. He bought our house. BEFORE we ever had to list it, or show it, or keep it really clean for a long time. This is such an amazing blessing!<br />
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How does this affect our adoption?<br />
We really struggled with the idea of moving while we are still in the process of adopting. You see-we filled out approximately one bazillion papers that have THIS address on it. Ryan's employment is on half a zillion papers and our HOME STUDY was done in THIS home. So there are a lot of things that would have to be changed if we moved. Well, during this time of thinking we were still waiting on our I-600A approval-which is just a piece of paper from the Dept of Homeland Security saying that it is okay for us to bring children from another country into the U.S. We were going crazy checking our mailbox every single day waiting for this paper. Before it came we discussed that we were in the "waiting" process right now anyway and that if we were going to move that NOW would be the better time. Once we have a referral (two sweet faces to look at and waiting on a court date) there is NO WAY we would move and slow things down. Since we didn't have the I-600A yet, our paperwork hadn't been sent to Ethiopia. Long story short-after talking to our agency we feel like right now is the best time in this process to make a change. It may slow us down a few months, it may not really make a difference. Also-when we talked to our agency they let us know that they were sort of on "pause" because Ethiopia was sort of dragging their feet renewing some agencies licenses because they were wanting to make a few changes first. While this made us really sad that things may be slowing down and that children were going to have to wait longer to go to their forever families it gave us a little push to "hurry up and move". We still prayed constantly that things would be fixed so that children could join their families. We didn't care about being next in line as much as we just wanted as many children to have parents as possible. ..The day before Ryan's interview we had an e-mail that said the license was renewed and everything was moving along like normal!-Praise God! As soon as we committed to seeing where this opportunity would take us we got our I-600A approval. If it had come sooner we may be in a much more difficult place to move. So..yes our adoption may be slightly delayed while we settle down and get moved but since <u>only</u> God knows the timing of this story, we have comfort in knowing that it's HIS timeline-who knows what it would have been if we stayed here. We feel that God had this planned the whole time and that our family will be complete in His time.<br />
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Anyway-we've got a lot of this going on, needless to say. We're doing a lot of this..<br />
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Because we close on our house on April 19th. Yikes! Yep-we have about 3 or 4 more weeks left in Nashville.<br />
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So here we come small town life. We look forward to walking the paths that Ryan and I walked while we dated and where we fell in love. Ryan looks forward to coaching his children in tee ball where he learned to swing a bat. We are planning on slowing down a little and enjoying the people we love. Freed Hardeman University is a place like no other and we really can't wait to soak it all up again. Though we are leaving a church of God's people that meets here in Nashville we will be joining our brothers and sisters in another really special family.<br />
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Soon we will turn the page and be on Chapter Next...Thank you God for giving us a story at all.<br />
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abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-62472223925472075302013-03-25T17:25:00.003-07:002013-03-25T17:25:41.291-07:00the life of BrodySo Brody is getting pretty close to 2. I used to blab about him all the time on this blog and realized that he isn't getting his name in print quite as much. Well, he's awesome so here you go.<br />
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I thought it was time for an update on Bro Bro, Broman, the Brodster, Brody Boo, Munchkinland, Stinker, Buddy, Lovie, the first born. Yeah, we call him all sorts of weird things. The only one I've regretted is when he had a really bad cold and I called him "booger nose". He brought me his saline nose spray DAYS later and said, "booger nose?" Oops.<br />
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So that's the main update -Brody talks.All.The.Time. He repeats pretty much anything he hears and usually strings some pretty rocking sentences together. :) Sometimes he even says, "Hey Dad?" or "Hey Mom?" as if he is 13. Those conversations usually go like this...<br />
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Hey Dad?<br />
Yeah buddy, what is it?<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
Yes sir, what you got?<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
How can I help you Brody?<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
Yes?<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
Tell me what you need Bro.<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
Uh huh?<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
At your service man, what is it?<br />
Hey Dad?<br />
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In the past few days Brody has developed a SUPER high pitched voice.<br />
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Play Doh is awesome.<br />
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Naps are optional according to my kid. But he often practices his counting while in the bed NOT napping.<br />
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Brody is pretty polite most of the time.<br />
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Sometimes he cries for 30 minutes for no reason?<br />
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My favorite thing he says is, "hold you?" Which means "hold me."<br />
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We pretty much checked out at the end of February and beginning of March due to sickness. We did that last year. Double ear infections, cough, goopy eyes, the whole deal. Best thing about it was extra snuggles!<br />
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Brody usually prays like this-"Jesus, Amen." If we remind him to say what he's thankful for he usually names a few people that he loves. It pretty much melts my heart!<br />
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He always wants to sing "wise man", "wheels on bus-go beep beep", "whole world" (he's got the whole world in His hands), and he can sing a lot of twinkle twinkle and Jesus loves me. Sometimes he requests Jesus loves children of the world.<br />
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Pretzels and hummus are still one of his favorites.<br />
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We have loved the days where we get to play outside. He is really good at climbing on the playground this year so we LOVE it!<br />
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We eat breakfast at his little play table almost every morning.<br />
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Some days we feel like awesome parents and then the Lord humbles us and we have a day where we feel like we have NO idea what we are doing. I LOVE every.single.day as Brody's mommy. I am so blessed that God shared Brody with me. I am learning so much from him and through him.<br />
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Yep-we did it. Ryan and I registered in December to run a half marathon in Chattanooga on February 23rd. We trained, we got outfitted, we made smoothies, we ran in the snow, the rain, the cold, the dark, and on the days we didn't feel like running. And now I am staring at my medal and race bib. And let me tell you something..I'm really proud of my wrinkled race bib and "participation medal". </div>
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<li>It started at 8:00 A.M. <i>Eastern</i> time, which is 7:00 to our bodies-we got up at 6:15ish (which felt more like 5:15ish) and I woke up a million times the night before. </li>
<li>It was pretty warm for February and although we had brought many different options for race outfits my main issue was that I had been doing all my training with an ear warmer headband and hadn't trained with any other headbands.It was way too warm for the fleece headband. I had a small hair crisis. (It all worked out fine thanks to the lucky yellow hair band from a sweet friend and some bobby pins)</li>
<li>I ate oatmeal with peanut butter and chocolate chips for breakfast. </li>
<li>Ryan-aka best husband ever-graciously offered to run at my snail pace rather than on his own just to make it more fun and encourage me. <i>And</i> so we could cross the finish line holding hands. Not joking-ladies, if you haven't found yourself a man yet-look for one who wants to cross the finish line holding hands. (literally and metaphorically) </li>
<li>I thought a 10:00 minute pace would be a pretty good choice for me to try and stick with. We started out at a 9:15 pace (I feel like its virtually impossible not to get excited and try to get away from the mob and run too fast at the beginning of a race) Mile 12 took me 11:28-yes I was still "running", but barely. :)</li>
<li>I only told Ryan to shut up once. Sorry babe. That was somewhere around mile 12 and he told me to try and catch up with this lady who passed me. This is when I was in "one foot in front of the other mode."</li>
<li>We ran through the park where Ryan and I walked and rode bikes when we were engaged.</li>
<li>We passed the restaurant where we had our engagement dinner with our families. </li>
<li>I poured a lot of water and Gatorade down my shirt. </li>
<li>The first 8 1/2 miles were MUCH flatter than the last part of the race. </li>
<li>We used sport jelly beans as our mid-race fuel-they're tasty. </li>
<li>Neither myself or Ryan ever ran with music during our training or the race. </li>
<li>I was SO SO SO glad to see that finish line and my parents and Brody clapping and yelling for us. </li>
<li>I had a LOT of trouble walking for the rest of the day. </li>
<li>I was emotional crossing the finish line but even more so afterwards, I just kept tearing up when I saw people crossing the finish line-especially when this little boy ran out to cross it with his daddy-I cried just typing that. </li>
<li>Our official time was 2:15:19. No speed records there, but I'm super happy. </li>
<li>My goals were to get to the starting line healthy and finish the race without stopping-check, check. </li>
<li>Even though there were portions of the race that I was feeling <i>really</i> bad-I can't wait to sign up for another one!! </li>
<li>As I was running I couldn't help but thank God for the strong body He gave me! I am so blessed to enjoy the health that I do-that's what kept me going. </li>
<li>I ran this race because I was encouraged by friends who had done it-especially the ones who said "I wasn't a runner" because before November I had never run more than about 3 1/2 miles. EVER. And a few months later I ran 13.1!! So even if you think you can't do it-YOU CAN!!! </li>
<li>I wonder what else I can accomplish that once seemed impossible? </li>
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abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-84672952100731984952012-12-20T21:43:00.004-08:002012-12-20T21:43:55.877-08:00Pajama Project 2012=SUCCESS!!Grand total-108<br />
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I am completely overwhelmed by that number. So many of you gave me pajamas! Thank you, thank you, thank you so very much!<br />
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It is really special to be in the family of God.<br />
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I was given SO many pajamas at church, just because of a blog post and a little announcement in our ladies class.<br />
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Packages arrived on my doorstep because sweet girls that I went to college with wanted to help and ordered the cutest PJs and had them sent to my house.<br />
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Family sent them back with us at Thanksgiving.<br />
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Friends gave me bags of pajamas and told me that more was coming..and more came.<br />
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Some people bought them and shipped them to us from Hawaii. Yes..really, Hawaii.<br />
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Husbands just turned a blind eye when certain wives would throw pajamas into their cart every time we went to Target.<br />
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Elves volunteered their wrapping services until late into the night.<br />
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Wrapping paper was just handed to me, without even a request.<br />
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Tomorrow we will get to deliver these jammies to the Rescue Mission and hopefully everyone will have a pair that works for them somewhere among the pile. I was given a list of names and sizes, so we decided to wrap those. Then we realized that if there are any additional children that we didn't have on the list, they would probably enjoy a wrapped gift too, so we wrapped the extras and just put the size on the tag. I am praying it all works out and that the pajamas make them feel special and safe.<br />
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When you come home after a long day, or your little one finally goes to bed for the night, or when you feel sick..what's the first thing you want to do? If you're like me, the answer is put on your pajamas. Pajamas can save the day.<br />
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These pajamas aren't going to change the world or anything. In fact I can guarantee that it has given me more joy than it will any single child. It means so much to me to be ABLE to do something and for everyone to help me just shows how much can happen when people work together. </div>
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Ryan is now reading one of my favorite books: <i>Go+Do </i>by Jay Milbrandt. I love when we read the same books because when we talk about them it reminds me of the great parts of the book. (By the way, my husband is incredible and when I ask him to read a book, he will)</div>
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Well, he goes on to tell a story about a video of an outdoor concert. One lone person steps out into a field and starts dancing. They are just out their looking crazy, dancing all alone. And they would have stayed that way, alone, until the <i>second</i> person joins them. That second person goes out into the field and dances with them...and then...many many follow. </div>
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My heart has been broken and my mind has been spinning over the Sandy Hook Elementary shooting. I have zero answers for how to even begin to address the tragedy and what to do moving forward. All I know is that there is only ONE who can overcome heartache. </div>
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John 16:33-"These things I have spoken to you, That in me you have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world."</div>
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One day Jesus will overcome ALL of the evil and sadness of this world and it will just be gone. What if we all try to bring Jesus closer to this world by BEING Jesus in ANY way we can? </div>
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If you see someone "dancing in a field all alone"- join them. Thank you for joining me. </div>
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-30667022258203593372012-12-20T20:46:00.002-08:002012-12-20T20:46:33.774-08:00And..I'm back...No surprise that this blog had posts titled December 1st, 2nd, 3rd, 4th, and then radio silence. Good thing I'm not getting paid to blog every day.<br />
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Don't worry-I did NOT abandon my acts of kindness-we have just been crazy busy since, well, always..but its self inflicted and we are blessed beyond measure so I won't complain.<br />
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I realized that I am in many ways really bad with structure and deadlines, etc. SO..I had to loosen my expectations on getting each thing done DAILY and will just try to accomplish all of them this month. Sorry to let you down..I'm a work in progress. Kindness IS and HAS been spread!<br />
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A few weekends ago Ryan and I dropped Brody off with my parents in Chattanooga and went to Asheville to just enjoy a little getaway and visit the Biltmore. This was a super wonderful treat from my parents for Christmas and for Ryan finishing his MBA!!! It was my first time to spend the night away from Brody and let me tell you....it was really great. I LOVE my child so so so so much but I love spending time with my best friend (Ryan). We really enjoyed just being able to focus on each other and enjoy some down time-I highly recommend a little getaway for any parents who feel a little hesitant to leave their babies. :)<br />
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The Biltmore at night. We got to go on Friday night when they had all of the fireplaces and Christmas lights lit. It was really amazing! </div>
That's Ryan standing in front of that HUGE tree. He's holding a coffee. Our main plan was to have a really good coffee in our hands at all times.<br />
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We went back on Saturday for the full walk through and we did the audio tour and a special behind the scenes tour where we got to go into a few extra bedrooms and hear some neat stories about the people who visited the Vanderbilts. This made us really want to rewatch Downton Abbey. </div>
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I don't have pictures but our other 2 weekend acts of kindess were to let someone in front of you in line-which I think we did a few times-easy! And-give a generous or unexpected tip. We were really excited to give the man at the omelet station a nice tip during breakfast. He was really sweet and his omelets were awesome. </div>
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If you don't know, <i>The Contributor </i> is a newspaper written and sold by people who are homeless or formerly homeless. You can usually see them standing all around different areas of Nashville. They cost $1.00. If you have never read one, you should, it's a good paper! I drove around for a few minutes until I found a seller and she was REALLY appreciative. </div>
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The Vanderbilt Children's Hospital website has a TON of things listed that are super easy to round up and donate that could really make a huge difference in a family's hospital experience. Toys and art supplies to occupy the children and make their stay more enjoyable and practical things like underwear for kids and parents. We had to take little newborn Brody to the hospital and if it wasn't for great friends who came to our house and got some things for us, I would have needed some of those "practical things!" :) </div>
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So I gathered a few things off the list and plan to make an appointment to drop it off. Easy One!</div>
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Leave some candy canes on people's cars. I put this one on the car beside me RIGHT when I got out, and before I could get Brody out the owner was getting in her car. Like..we almost touched. I hope she ate it and liked it, or at least felt like she was special.<br />
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Another easy one was leaving some diapers and wipes in a restroom with a note! When would someone really appreciate a random act of kindness?? When they get in the bathroom and realize they have no diapers! I know I would.<br />
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So, technically I was supposed to make treats for my neighbors..which I still plan on doing..but I made some cookies and then shared them with friends..so I counted that. :)<br />
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Send 3 cards-I sent 1 to a relative, 1 to our recycling man, and I have one more a church member ready to mail.<br />
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I am missing several days in there. Some I am still working on and others I have forgotten because I didn't document them properly. I will really enjoy doing these things when Brody can help too.<br />
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The biggest project of all has been the pajama collection!!!! Which deserves a post of its own..so stay tuned!<br />
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In adoption news...we had our biometrics appointment for USCIS this morning. We just had to get fingerprinted and when we get approval...we will be one step closer to our littles!!! We ARE on the waiting list and we are just praying praying praying that we will know more in 2013! Thank you for the prayers! Keep them coming!<br />
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-89627082854865926852012-12-04T11:38:00.000-08:002012-12-04T11:38:03.611-08:00December FourthIt's a yucky day. Yesterday was beautiful but today is a little dreary. However it was a PERFECT morning to spread a little cheer at the library.<br />
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This one was strategically placed because we usually either go to story time on Tuesday or Wednesday. I stuck it in a Tuesday JUST in case we didn't make it to story time today, we could at least make the treats for tomorrow. However..the rain encouraged us to go to story time this morning so that we could get out of the house. If you have a toddler-or maybe just any aged child-you know the blessing of getting out of the house for something fun. Especially something FREE and fun! </div>
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I honestly LOVE the library and all of the wonderful people who work there. It is such a special treat for us each week and I wanted to let them know how much we appreciate them! </div>
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And a craft! Brody's first time painting! He painted 2 mittens, one to take home and one to leave at the library to go on their Christmas tree.</div>
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He loves books!! Unfortunately we had to make an abrupt exit from the play area when <i>someone</i> "forgot" how to share. There was a bucket of puppets and some sort of tug-o-war with a stranger involved, and then a short wrestling match. I won, don't worry. </div>
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I dropped off the bucket of treats with the sweet man at the children's desk before story time. He was SO sweet and grateful and said he would make sure to spread the word. He seems a little surprised but in a good way. I actually heard a maintenance man asking him what it was and the librarian told him, "It says all library staff.." So I hope whoever wanted a cookie got one. :) </div>
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As we were leaving another lady who works in the library was asking Brody if he went to story time, who all was there today, etc (the puppet mishap was forgotten) and she told us she hoped we came back often. I let her know we came almost every week and loved it! She said that she used to bring her children every week when they were little too. I'm glad we had the chance to tell her that we love the library, she seemed happy to hear it. </div>
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Today's kindness act was really rewarding, and probably one of those things I would have thought about doing and never followed through with. So I am glad I wrote it down! And yes-my child is wearing shorts. </div>
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-11221464200832178392012-12-03T17:38:00.001-08:002012-12-03T17:38:54.218-08:00December Third and PJ project update!How 'bout this amazing weather? I usually don't like unseasonably warm days during the Christmas season but now that I have a little boy I will thank God for ANY opportunity to get out and play. Brody and I had a fabulous time at the park with one of my girlfriends and her little man! I had to keep shaking Brody's foot on the way home to keep him awake so that we wouldn't waste our nap on the last 3 minutes of the trip home. He promptly took a nap and I worked on our Act of Kindness for today!<br />
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I was excited about this one! Our mail man is always so sweet and Brody loves to wave at him and get the mail from him. One of Brody's first words beyond mama, dada, and bye bye was "mail man". So of course..we love the mail man!<br />
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I watched the mail man out the window and I think he looked surprised and maybe a little confused. And yes I realize that most of you wouldn't eat something from someone's house that you didn't know..but people used to do things like that all the time...maybe he's old school. </div>
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I have been overwhelmed by the support that I have had with my PJ project and am so excited to take them to the Rescue Mission later this month. I got a list of the children and their sizes today so I can share some areas of need with you if you would like to help!There were almost 50 children on the list and there is a chance there could be more! Remember...just leave a comment/facebook/e-mail me @ abbymhysmith@gmail.com</div>
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Very small gesture and it didn't cost me much- just some quarters! The only problem was that when we went to Target today we forgot about it so after we put Brody to bed I decided to go on a little drive and find a vending machine of some kind. All of the places I drove past did not have drink machines outside or anything so I went to Publix and saw an ice machine. :) It had a change slot so I went for it! I felt like I was playing a prank or something because I was rushing around and almost giggled when I thought someone was looking at me.</div>
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I was hoping no one would see me and think I was crazy. I have no idea who will benefit from this small little act but I hope it makes someone smile. It won't change a life or anything but MAYBE it will encourage someone to "pass it on." And if kindness could spread as rapidly as germs during flu season..well, then the world would be a better place!! </div>
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We LOVE to do a fun Saturday morning breakfast treat so this one went right to the heart of the Hysmiths.<br />
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So...we brightened someone's day and the bonus is it made us feel really good. <u>Not</u> in the way of "Oh wow we are such great people to do this nice thing..." Because Wow-doughnuts and coffee? We could do so much more.! But it made us thankful to God that we were even in a position to do something for someone else.</div>
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We are so so so so so blessed and sometimes- until you drive up to a person, have a little chat with them and realize that people who are in much more difficult circumstances are really kind and encouraging, do you realize what a gift you have to be able to bless someone else. </div>
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We also happened to have $1 and got this contributor from John. I asked him his name and it is also written here.His message on his paper is reminded us that it is a BRAND NEW DAY-This day has never been used. I love that! </div>
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I wrote him a note to tell him Merry Christmas and that we would be praying for him. <i>Another</i> blessing we realized this morning-we are able to bring the people who need Him before the throne of God. Wow. What an honor! If we hadn't met John this morning, we wouldn't have known to bring his <i>name</i> before God. And it means so much to me when I know someone prays for me <i>by name</i>. </div>
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But the really special thing is this...when we sat down at the table to eat our own breakfast (yes, we got donuts too) Brody said "pray?" and we were able to pray for our friend John with Brody. The doughnuts may not change much...but if we do our jobs to teach Brody to love God and show His love to others..then this little guy might just change the world. </div>
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abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-38031714913484603752012-11-30T21:59:00.001-08:002012-11-30T21:59:03.183-08:00Christmas KindnessIn about half an hour it is going to be December. I am really excited about this month for a few reasons. Lots of fun activities coming up, time with friends a family, a little trip for the hubby and myself, good food, etc. etc. What I am most excited about right now is this:<br />
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I know, you're probably overwhelmed at the quality of this photo..take a minute to gather yourself and then I will tell you what that is.<br />
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It is my Random Act Of Kindness Advent Calendar! <br />
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The gist is-each day we will pull out a slip of paper with a "random act of kindness" written on it. Not so random if I am telling the blogosphere? Let me explain my intentions here. First of all, I got the idea from another blog-which then encouraged me to do the same, so I think it's a good thing to share. I have read about where people do 30 Acts of Kindness on their 30th birthday, and things such as that.<br />
I got some of the ideas from other people and made some of them up myself. I am really excited about every single one of them.<br />
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I am not a type A person. I am a procrastinator and I have a lot of really good intentions. I miss meetings and get dates wrong for fun get togethers and accidentally skip them. This doesn't really always work for me. I don't always do the things that I really want to and need to do. So lately..I have been scheduling my life out and it kind of helps. Meal planning and exercising are the first two areas that sort of ignited me to be more organized. I can't wait to tell you about our New Year's resolution guidelines and goals. :) ....Anyway..the point is, we all think of little things that would be kind to do and that would make someone feel better but if you're like me, you don't always do it! So...I wrote some things down..stuck them in a little pocket and plan to pull one out each day and do it. It isn't forced or fake because I want to do it. This will just help me to remember and motivate me to actually do it. And..I bet it will be so great that this will just bleed over into many more days of acts of kindness.<br />
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We also want to make Christmas about so much more than presents. We want to share with Brody that it means so much more to give to others. So it is really special to us to be able to have the opportunity to do something for someone else, no matter how small, and let Brody be a part of that.<br />
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I only have 24 days on my calendar because that is all that fit. I do want to always try and plan one big service project for Christmas each year. This year that is going to be the Pajama Project!! If you missed out on that post you can find that here: http://3hysmiths.blogspot.com/2012/11/project-pajamas-needs-you.html or just go to my post labeled Project Pajama..I still need more PJs. But I have been given about 30 pairs of jammies and I think that is awesome, thanks everyone!<br />
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These acts may be really small-but kindness goes a long way. So "FOLLOW" me and join me if you want! And if you want the quick update-follow me on Twitter @AbbyHysmith...if you're into that kind of thing.<br />
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"But the fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, KINDNESS, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control, against such things there is now law." Galatians 5:22-23abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-88212689759127847602012-11-14T10:52:00.001-08:002012-11-30T21:54:51.842-08:00Project Pajamas Needs YOU! Whether your Christmas tree is up and you've been rocking out to Bing Crosby for months, or you are a die hard "no tinsel till after the Turkey" kind of person..you are probably fully aware that the Christmas season is upon us.<br />
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Anyone you ask probably has a different Christmas tradition that they love. Some of them may be big extravagant traditions like boot prints on the fireplace and climbing on the roof to jingle some bells in the middle of the night. Or it may be popping in Dr. Seuss' How the Grinch Stole Christmas and making some Swiss Miss. I don't know-perhaps this year you are going to implement a new Pinterest craft every single day. Oh that Pinterest...I remember making snowmen out of plastic spoons with our neighbors when I was little and I thought that was awesome. (And no-I am not a hater, my Christmas board is one of my most crowded boards.)</div>
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One thing that many people like about Christmas is getting new pajamas to wear on Christmas Eve. Not that big of a thing-but a sweet memory. </div>
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Did you know that there are over 50 kids at the Nashville Rescue Mission? Did you know they range from infancy to 17? Well if you didn't..now you do. </div>
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Ryan and I volunteered with Ordinary Hero at the Franklin Pumpkinfest for their Halloween Outreach with the rescue mission kids. The lady who started Ordinary Hero had the idea one year to do something fun for the kids for Halloween and a tradition started. This outreach opportunity encouraged me to think of something we could do to make Christmas a little more special for them. Thus began...PROJECT PAJAMA! </div>
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I e-mailed someone at the NRM and asked her if this idea was possible/a good idea. She said YES-Great idea...she knows there will probably be around 50+ children staying there at the time. (This changes often) But she thought that the same group that was there around Thanksgiving would still be there around Christmas. I told her I would try to collect various sizes and some extras so that everyone could have a pair that fits. She is planning to be able to give me more details on number/ages/sizes next week.</div>
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They plan to give the children the new PJs on Christmas Eve! What a special thing (though it is small) for kids who don't have much! My prayer is that this small gesture will help the families to know that Jesus loves them so much-because we will be serving these families only in the name of Jesus because we are blessed! </div>
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This morning around 4:30 my precious little Brody woke up. His PJ's were wet and his nose is super stuffed up and he has all this congestion in his chest and you can't really explain to a 1 year old how to cough and clear his throat. Needless to say-he was sad. Ryan and I both got up and Ry changed Brody's jammies and we got him some milk and I just rocked him while Ryan changed the sheets. I love my son so much that it makes me melt when he cuddles me and hurts my heart when he feels bad in any way. My mommy heart is often an achy melty mess. Brody is such a special little boy and we are extremely blessed to be his parents.<br />
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While I was enjoying the moment of snuggling with Brody and hoping he would feel better soon I couldn't help but think that there are MILLIONS of children all around the world and right around the corner who DON'T have someone to rock them when they are sick. They don't have a clean dry pair of pajamas if they wet theirs. This fact absolutely breaks my heart. All children deserve a mommy and a daddy. Babies deserve full bellies and play time and children need to be able to go to school.<br />
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Our hearts ache to know more about our two little ones who will at some point be orphaned. We pray that God can give them peace in their hearts to know that it isn't forever. We also feel so sad knowing that there are so many children out there who will not lose their orphan status. The best thing is to have a mommy and daddy who love you and will care for you always.<br />
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I don't know about God's calling for you. But as Christians we are all called to help those less fortunate- particularly orphans.<br />
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The good news is-there are a lot of things being done to help orphans. All around the world people are doing all kinds of bold things and all kinds of small things.<br />
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Maybe you are already doing something. Maybe you are already doing A LOT. Thank you for your example and your heart. Sometimes we know we should do something we just don't know what. So here are some ideas...<br />
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I ask you to PLEASE pray and ask God what YOU can do to serve an orphan. Here are some ways that you can DIRECTLY help an orphan.<br />
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<a href="http://www.showhope.org/Donate/BecomeASponsor.aspx">http://www.showhope.org/Donate/BecomeASponsor.aspx</a> Show Hope is an awesome organization that you can support in different ways. 91% of your donation will go to orphan care or to aid families with adoption. Your monthly donation would go to giving life changing care to an orphan who stays in one of Show Hope's care centers.<br />
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<a href="http://www.worldvision.org/m/sponsor-a-child/?open&campaign=1193519&cmp=KNC-1193519&gclid=CPmU1-rqtrMCFQHonAodqEgA_Q">http://www.worldvision.org/m/sponsor-a-child/?open&campaign=1193519&cmp=KNC-1193519&gclid=CPmU1-rqtrMCFQHonAodqEgA_Q</a> Sponsoring a child through World Vision is a little different. These children may not be orphans but your sponsorship could very well keep them from becoming one. If there school is paid for and they have basic needs met-it really takes the burden off of their parents who so desperately want to provide for them and do not have a way to do so. Many times when parents are unable to feed their child or send them to school they relinquish parental rights or worse-sell them as a slave.<br />
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Visit my link to <a href="http://www.147millionorphans.com/?AffId=94">http://www.147millionorphans.com/?AffId=94</a> on the side of my blog. There are some great Christmas gifts there and 1. It will help raise awareness to the orphan crisis and you can learn a lot more about the organization and the work they are doing. 2. It will help our adoption efforts 3. Even if you don't want to purchase through our link-just check it out-your purchase will help children in need all around the world!<br />
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Our hearts are really aching for children that we know NOTHING about. We are passionate about children in need of families and care and we want to be more involved in whatever little part we can. We want to encourage others to care for orphans and take a new step and leap of faith each day to learn more and do more. God has blessed us so much and I can't imagine not being a child of His. What if someone hadn't cared about me when I was an "orphan" Boy do we have a LONG way to go to be the people that God wants us to be-and I'm sure we will never actually get there.<br />
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Our hearts and minds are open to more than just adoption-if anyone has encouragement or needs something-we are ready to get our hands dirty-literally and figuratively.<br />
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PRAY-PRAY-PRAY!!! Speak up for those who don't have a voice!<br />
<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-20657575483832195902012-10-23T12:38:00.000-07:002012-10-23T12:44:18.601-07:00Books and 27I absolutely love to read. Its my favorite hobby ever. I think a book can change your life because it can give you access to someone else's life and in a small way, experience that life in addition to your own.<br />
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My husband knows me well. This month, on the 21st, I turned 27. Ryan declared it birthday month for me and on about October 2nd-he started giving me my birthday presents. I got 8 books for my birthday and we also built a book shelf earlier this month. I have a really sweet husband. You might be offended if you got 8 books for your birthday-I am super excited about it. I've read 4 of them.<br />
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Oh-most of the books were used which means they were super cheaper than they would be new which means-he splurged on hard back for me. Also-in our family we have started "birthday week punch cards". Right now its a metaphorical punch card but in the future they will be real. Each day for 7 days leading up to your birthday you get 1 punch! I used most of mine on Christie Cookie, Chick Fil A, and entertainment choices-a Sunday hike, a Friday date while the Palmers played with Brody-thanks :)<br />
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Here are the books I got for my birthday-so far, all of them are slam dunks.<br />
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This book was so good and eye opening. Once you get through the heart stopping grief that launches this story you can't put it down. If you're looking for a light happy story-this isn't it. But if you're into the kind of books that change your heart and help you learn more about the world and people who have experienced tragic loss, along with a lot of triumph-READ IT TODAY.<br />
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<img alt="Jantsen's Gift: A True Story of Grief, Rescue, and Grace" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51iVCxS65TL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><br />
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GO + DO was the perfect encore to Jantsen's Gift for me. This book is written by a man and I don't read many books authored by males so I liked the difference. There are so many capacities of serving and reaching out to others and this one is written by a lawyer-most lawyers don't get credit for saving the world, so if you know someone who is interested in law and wants to help people-give them this.<br />
<img alt="Go and Do: Daring to Change the World One Story at a Time" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/418M0ty-mfL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><br />
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Unbroken pretty much left me sleep deprived and amazed. I stayed up past midnight several nights in a row because I just couldn't put it down. What a story! This is pretty high on my favorite books ever list. I don't know what else to say about it-just read it.<br />
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<img alt="Unbroken: A World War II Story of Survival, Resilience, and Redemption" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/517gOImApNL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><br />
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Anything-this book really spoke to me. It put into words a lot of what I've tried to put into words and instead just made up a bunch of really bad analogies for how I feel. I think Ryan appreciates when I finally read something and can say-this is it-this is what I've been trying to say. Because then we can all sleep.<br />
<img alt="Anything: The Prayer That Unlocked My God and My Soul" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/4139VKCqUQL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><br />
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I sort of think that all of these books were written with the purpose to be life changing for Christ. Now the Bible is obviously THE book for such a thing, but sometimes when we read the stories of people we can meet or look at pictures of-it just helps us see the bible in a whole new way. I'm still letting them all "simmer" but I'm pretty pumped about their affect on me.<br />
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<img alt="Secret Daughter: A Novel" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41jT0w5L1XL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><img alt="No Greater Love" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/513I5e9EnqL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><br />
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<img alt="The Greatest Generation" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51togy3BZWL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><img alt="One Thousand Gifts: A Dare to Live Fully Right Where You Are" src="http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/51lWAOBT9rL._BO2,204,203,200_PIsitb-sticker-arrow-click,TopRight,35,-76_AA300_SH20_OU01_.jpg" /><br />
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Very excited about all of them! If you have read any of these let me know-I love discussing books! I may even let you borrow one, as long as you return it. :) I like to "encourage" my hubby to read books that I love so that we can come a little closer to having the same brain. (Wouldn't that make some things easier?)<br />
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So I am 27. I don't have a lot of wisdom to impart except that I am SUPER blessed. I have an amazing husband, a precious son, and hopefully sometime before I'm 37-2 more precious souls will join our family. We have a home that is cool in the summer and warm in the winter. I actually have to decide what to wear each day which means I have more than one thing to wear. Grocery shopping is something that I can do any time I want. I know how to read and can own any book I want. I can proclaim Jesus on the internet or in a store or anywhere I go (and I still don't do it everywhere I go-even though no one will throw me in jail or behead me.) I stay at home with my kid every day and we have to "find things to do" so we don't go crazy. Eating too much is the problem and running and walking are forms of exercise that I need to do more and not forms of getting around. My house is a wreck right now because the boss-ME- doesn't seem to care. Teaching my toddler to share is my hardest work assignment right now and the worst thing that happens to my son each day is having to come inside from playing.<br />
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Right now-at 27 I have <u>some</u> perspective. Maybe its because we are in the process of adopting from Africa. Maybe its because of these books I have been reading. I don't know-maybe God has given it to me because I need it <u>so </u>badly. Yikes I am blessed and I don't want be ungrateful or belittle my blessings. I want to share them and be grateful for them! I want to want less and give more. I am so not a finished project and I have such a long way to go. I hope I'm doing a little better than I was at 17 and I pray that I have the opportunity to be better at 37. My talents are limited but my heart is open. If you like to shut out all of the bad things that are going on in the world-DON'T, because you just might be the person that God wants to use to do something about it. It might just be me. I'm not sure? But I hope my ears are open too-so I can hear what's next.abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-33329836609066619422012-09-28T12:08:00.001-07:002012-09-28T12:08:35.130-07:00God Provides"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6<br />
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When your calling to do something overcomes your fear...that is when you can finally trust God. Some people may find the choices that others make irresponsible or hasty. Sometimes we make irresponsible and very impulsive decisions. Sometimes they don't turn out well. Adoption, isn't one of them.<br />
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Some people do not feel like they can adopt simply because it costs a lot of money. Its hard to figure out how to pay for things but there are a lot of families who just jump in and trust that the money will come. We are one of those families.<br />
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For those of you who have been wondering how much adoption costs, I'll just tell you. Our agency estimates that in 2012 the Fees and Expenses would come out to about $32,000.<br />
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The fees cover things like processing of paper work, the time it takes our social worker to come to our home and interview us and then type out a report to be sent with our dossier, fingerprinting and background checks, translation of our papers, registration of our documents, post adoption reports, travel, and different documents that cost money.<br />
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We are hoping to adopt 2 children. The fees will not be twice as much but we are looking at a total of something like $40,000 or more. We are <b>not</b> trying to raise $40,000. We are doing everything we can to pay for every part of this adoption ourselves. But it is a little overwhelming at times, but then we remember that God is a part of this journey.<br />
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Last weekend some friends of ours hosted a support dinner for us. They wanted to (1) Make people aware that we were adopting and (2) help us any way they could with our funds. These friends of ours are precious treasures from the Lord.<br />
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I did absolutely NOTHING for this dinner other than show up. They sent the invitations and cleaned up afterwards and EVERYTHING in between.<br />
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The dinner was absolutely special and wonderful. The tables were beautiful, the food was delicious, the guests were so kind, the music (which I am listening to right now) was so sweet, the slide show was heartwarming, and the video they showed even worked! There were pictures of us and a really cool cut out of Africa with a bible verse on it. They came and got my 147 Million Orphans stuff and lots of it sold.<br />
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There was also a table with a bowl and some envelopes. The girls made an announcement at the dinner that they had raised over <b>$1500</b> for us!! That is so HUGE! Now, back to that bowl...when we got home and opened up the envelopes we counted <u style="font-weight: bold;">$2,760. </u> Several people gave us donations over the next few days.<br />
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Because these girls decided to help us, we are more than $4,500 closer to the goal!!! That's a really big deal!! Plus now that many more people know our story, we have that many more people praying for us! At the dinner they also left note cards on the table for people to write us notes and the kind words that people left us mean so much to us.<br />
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God has provided for us in so many ways and we are so grateful! The people in our lives are great instruments of his handiwork! Thank you so much, we are blessed and really don't have the right words to express how thankful we are to the people who worked on the dinner for us, those that came, those that donated, and for the ones praying for us...we love you!<br />
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I know there were other wonderful people who helped, thank you so much!!! IF ANYONE HAS FRIENDS WHO ARE ADOPTING AND YOU WANT TO HELP THEM.....Please contact me abbymhysmith@gmail.com, because this was a really great event!<br />
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Please pray for us as we await the next step in our process to be completed..it is hard to wait but boy are we growing!!! :)<br />
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-44010288742531161682012-09-18T11:04:00.000-07:002012-09-18T11:04:25.089-07:00Connect Courageously<br />
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<span class="huge" style="border: 0px; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 15pt; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">"No matter how busy you are, you must take time to make the other person feel important.</span><span style="font-size: 16px;"> "</span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></span><span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">We have been really busy lately. </span><br />
<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></span><span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">It's been great. We have spent a lot of time with family, made memories, eaten great food, and done a lot of laundry. But this morning, when I looked at my calendar (the dry erase one on the refrigerator) and I saw nothing written on it...I felt pure joy. I actually love to have things on my agenda. Play dates, errands, lunches, appointments, these are the musical notes to the sweet melody of my life, but sometimes, the rhythm needs to slow down a little bit. Because I need to remember that my symphony, my opus, my prize winning score, is my family. The little nucleus that lives in this house right now and the two that live in our hearts, those people are the ones I need to make feel important. </span><br />
<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></span><span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">I would love to take some time to report on those wonderful trips and activities that have happened in the past few <strike>weeks</strike><i style="text-decoration: line-through;"> </i> months. So be expecting some retro blogging in the future. Those highlights will consist of the beach, Gatlinburg, and our precious precious son. But today, please let me share with you about our weekend. </span><br />
<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></span><span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">This past weekend Ryan and I attended Empowered to Connect. It is a conference geared towards adoptive and foster parents, along with social workers and counselors, but mainly parents. To say that it was "empowering" and that I "connected" would be an understatement. My emotions were in hyper overdrive and my heart was wide open from the minute I parked the car at Brentwood Baptist, which is where the conference was held. Ryan was able to come after lunch on Friday and join me, but I was solo for the morning session. As I was walking in I actually started crying just watching all of the other adoptive parents gather to learn more about how to connect with their children. It felt awesome to be in the presence of so many other people that are on the same journey as us. Some of them are WAY ahead of us, and other in the same boat. It was like God was showing me, see, you aren't alone. These people made it and they are with you. </span><br />
<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><br /></span><span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">Now I don't really know how to explain what the sessions were about, but they were amazing. There was scientific research, there were video clips, there were personal stories, there were charts, and there was THE Dr. Karyn Purvis. In the world of adoption this woman is the expert. She has seen some children from VERY hard places and been able to help them and their families. My heart broke hearing her talk about the children who have come to her and the past they are trying to overcome.</span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"> I remembered that God has a design for families. When a baby is born they are supposed to be held close and fed by their mother and rocked and cooed at by daddy. When they cry, someone should take care of their needs and they should always be warm and have a full belly. But this is not the case for every child. Many things in this world do not go according to God's design...but the amazing thing about God is that He also offers redemption. So, whatever our children are missing, we will do all we can to try and make up for that. I know it won't be easy, but the first step is having the tools to make it happen. I believe that God provides those tools if we seek them out. He has created amazing people who have talents and brains to help us.</span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">One of my favorite quotes from the conference was this: "Don't you love it when science catches up to God?" Some people think that there is either faith or there is science. I think that it's amazing to discover something that God designed and to understand it even further. Now I am no science lover...but when it comes to understanding the development of children and their brains and their inner workings...I like that, I like that a lot. </span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">We felt so blessed to go the conference. We took notes, cried, got some DVDs, and learned so much. It just sort of reignited our passion. Sometimes with adoption you hit slumps and it feels like the whole process just stopped. So doing something like this was great. It made it real again. It also made me thing that maybe sometimes the journey is long and hard because it strengthens us as parents. And these children are going to need strong parents.</span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">I need to brag on my husband a minute. I don't think I do it enough. Ryan is a sweetheart. Literally, he just has a sweet heart. I feel so blessed to be the one to know him the best. You see, my sweet Ryan just turned 25. Yeah, he's a tiny baby. But he gets it. This man in my life is leading our family on a journey that I would not miss for anything. He is passionate about being a good father and husband and doing for our family whatever it is we need to do. I went on a run the other day and my mind was going crazy, naturally. A song popped into my head. It is by Casting Crowns and it is from the movie Courageous. If you haven't seen the movie, watch it tonight with your husband. If you're single, watch it and then reassess your list of desirable traits in a mate. Here are the lyrics to the song:</span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Kristen ITC';">we could be the generation that finally breaks the chains<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Kristen ITC';">we were made to be courageous<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Kristen ITC';">we were made to be courageous<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Kristen ITC';">we were warriors on the front lines,<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Kristen ITC';">you were made for so much more.<o:p></o:p></span></span></div>
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;"><span style="font-family: 'Kristen ITC'; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 17px;">in the battle of the heart,</span><span style="font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 11pt; line-height: 17px;"></span></span><br />
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<span style="border: 0px; font-size: 16px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px;">As I mentioned, Ryan is young. We are young parents, just starting out. But I think that he can lead his generation. He is on the front line for us. I am so proud of him. The whole theme of the conference was connecting with children from hard places. But we are going to make sure that we first connect with God, connect in our marriage, connect with Brody, connect with family and friends, and then when we finally are able to physically connect with our children in Ethiopia, we will learn to connect with them. </span><br />
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abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-68964447330314853112012-08-20T18:54:00.003-07:002012-08-21T17:10:58.531-07:00LessonsI already know this post is going to be all over the place. It's been quite a while since I typed out any of my thoughts, but oh have I had thoughts. :) If this doesn't make sense to you at all..sorry, please try to decode it as best you can and I will be back with some pictures of our adorable son soon.<br />
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<i>I love The Olympics</i>-I was completely obsessed with the Olympics and Ryan and I both got twitter accounts so we could follow Olympians. I. LOVE. THE. OLYMPICS. I only cried like twice during each event (maybe just once during the 100 meter race). Oscar Pistorius..cannot contain my emotions about this man and his story. We're considering moving to GB to see if the accents rub off. My brother-in-law was spotted on the Today Show-Olympic version (yep, he was cool enough to actually go to the Olympics and even saw Michael Phelps become an Olympic legend). Sometimes (actually all the time) there are losers. Some people don't even finish their races-these were some of the hardest moments to watch. Working your whole life and then something goes wrong. UHH..it hurts my heart. I am thankful for this verse...<i>"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith." 2 Timothy 4:7 </i>There aren't many things that I could be best at in this world, so I am just going to try and finish this race with my faith.<br />
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<i>God provides-</i> I cannot even express how amazing God has been in providing what we need. We feel like He told us that we were supposed to pursue the adoption of TWO children and that He would provide the funds. Well, I can't really even tell you all the ways that God has provided but he has sent some amazing people into our lives. Laura Beth Lamb hosted a 31 party for us and just GAVE us all the money she would have made off of the party. This is part of her family's livelihood and she just GAVE it to to us. So many people placed orders and came to the party and even decided to host a party themselves that benefits US. All I had to do for this party was give her names of people to invite. THAT'S ALL. And we made almost $400 just because someone wanted to do something to support us. Oh and she lives in Indiana.<br />
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I had a friend just go buy my child a bunch of fall/winter clothes. She picked out amazing and sweet clothes that she knew I would love and that looked like Brody and when I asked her how much I owed her, she said..absolutely nothing..enjoy. Wow.<br />
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People have handed me cards and I was excited about the kind note of encouragement and when I realized they were giving us money, I of course..cried.<br />
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We've had friends donate a large amount of money to us when I know they have a lot going on themselves.<br />
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Women have given me their children's hand me downs.<br />
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We sold our furniture on Craigslist and the couple who bought our bed and large dresser gave us an extra $100 because we told them about our adoption plans.<br />
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I got a random phone call from a survey who wanted to ask me a few questions about vaccinating our child and if I did she'd send me $30...I got that check today.<br />
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We got a check from Blue Cross that was for something about something,..I don't know..but it was unexpected money.<br />
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We have sold t-shirts....which, by the way..are now becoming back in stock and there are NEW shirts available on the website, even more coming in soon. (Click the link on the side of this blog if you are interested)<br />
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I'm not trying to brag or reveal a lot of our financial business that some people may find to be private..but I want you to know that God provides! If you have ever dismissed the idea of adoption because of the money..please contact me! We aren't there yet but we KNOW that we can do it. I don't expect all the cash to just be handed to us...trust me. We are working really hard on saving and just not spending. But God is really taking care of us. Why am I shocked over these things?<br />
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<i>We have some wonderful people in our lives-</i>Now I'm going to be honest, there were times when we first began this journey that we weren't sure if we were in the right "circle" for adoption. We knew people would be sweet and excited but we weren't sure if we would feel like they "got it" or if we needed friends who had adopted also because we had that in common. OUR FRIENDS ARE AMAZING. They have been so supportive and helpful and loving and caring and wanting to ask about it and praying and doing so much more.... One time I read something that said something like this, your friends may not want to adopt just because you are adopting, and that's okay, but they will want to help you and do anything they can for you, that is their part. This is going to be a LONG road and just because our sweet friends and family aren't headed this way doesn't mean they won't walk with us along the way. It means the world to us!!!! I'm sorry for my doubts or worries in the beginning...they don't say that adoption will help you grow for no reason. My eyes are opened to what other people are doing to open their hearts, minds, planners, and wallets for our children. I love the friends I have, thank you for your support.<br />
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<i>Patience is something you have to want in order to obtain-</i>For a few weeks we were anxiously awaiting "The Ethiopia book". It is the instructions on how to complete the paperwork process and much more, from our agency. It needed some revising and the world does not revolve around us (so we hear) so, it took longer than we wanted it to for us to be e-mailed this important document.<br />
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I went to a pretty dark place for a while. I would check my e-mail 637 times a day and sink lower and lower each time I saw no e-mail. When Ryan would come home it became his fault that adoption takes a long time and I refused to leave my house because of the Olympics so I was in a black hole for a couple weeks.<br />
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People..this is not good. I wasn't trying to be patient. I was trying to make the e-mail appear in my inbox by checking it without ceasing. I think I should have been doing something else without ceasing..praying for our children. Praying for our marriage. Praying for Brody. Praying for our case worker and his family and be thankful for the work he does. Praying for those who are seriously hurting and sick.<br />
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I've got to get a different strategy because I don't even know WAITING yet. I can't imagine what it will be to wait when I actually have pictures and names to wait on..<br />
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From now on, I don't want to be crazy. Sure, I will have some hard times..but not because I choose to wallow in the waiting. I'll do better..and please, occasionally, force me to leave my home.<br />
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I always tell Brody that patience is waiting nicely, even when its hard. I will be trying to wait more nicely in the future.<br />
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BY THE WAY-We did get the Ethiopia Book! I was standing on the beach and checked my e-mail (gotta love a smart phone) and I jumped on Ryan's foot, he scowled at me and then we hugged!! So we are working on that now!! Hopefully we can have everything finished and our ducks in a row in a couple weeks! I had to order a new passport and some other documents that will take a little bit. But please pray for all of this to go smoothly!<br />
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<i>I've got a great husband- </i>He listens to me. He strives to make me happy. Sometimes I am difficult. He leads our family in the way that is right with God as his compass. He has compassion for others and is such a good daddy! I know he will be so good with our other children. Ryan is my best friend.<br />
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<i>I've got a problem and it's called the Christie Cookie Chocolate Chip Sandwich Cookie. </i>Worth. Every. Calorie. And then some.<br />
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<i>Today's weather made me giddy. </i>I went on a run this morning and I am so so excited for Fall. Ahh...Seasons, a little treat from God. He knew we would get bored with one climate.<br />
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<i>I am so thankful for the health of my family.</i> We aren't going to have these young healthy bodies forever. I am going to focus less on what this body of mine looks like and more on if it is healthy and fit to serve God and my family.<br />
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<i>Man I love blogging...I will be back soon. </i>My head feels so clear.<br />
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-24615292192603439662012-07-12T19:29:00.002-07:002012-07-12T19:37:51.419-07:00Moving Along<span style="color: #3d85c6;">Yesterday we had our home study interviews. The word I would use to describe the whole thing would be...fabulous. God is so present in all of the decisions we make and I'm not sure why it continues to surprise us that He leads us to the right choices when we ask for His guidance. Our agency is amazing and our case worker could not have been any better suited for us. Our agency is so proactive in finding homes for children in need and I really admire the hard work they do and the sacrifices they make. God is using them so well! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">I cannot speak for other adoptive families but the home study interviews were nothing to fret about. Ryan and I are pretty much open books so it wasn't too hard for us. </span><span style="color: #3d85c6;">They just want to make sure that children are being put into a better situation than what they are coming from. Sadly..some children are put into worse environments and that is what the home study is trying to prevent. It's a really necessary step and we are just excited to be moving along! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">The thing we were most nervous about before hand were the answers we may get to some questions we wanted to ask him.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>What is the wait time to receive a referral?</i> About 9 months (like a pregnancy) and he thinks that is getting shorter. There is always a disclaimer that it could be much longer or that something terrible could happen, but we signed up knowing those things but hoping for the best. </span><br />
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<i><span style="color: #3d85c6;">We want to make sure that we do not have the mindset of please go find us a child...but here we are, ready..when a child needs us..we will love them. Families for orphans..not orphans for families. </span></i><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">When we started this process we decided we would be "open to siblings." Meaning, we would accept a referral for a blood related pair of siblings. Our hearts started to be changed and softened and instead of "open" we were now "hoping for siblings." The problem is that we have a young child and we would like him to remain the oldest child in our family. So unless there were twins needing a home, we would probably receive a referral for one child. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>So our next question was "Can we adopt TWO non-blood related children at the same time?"</i> Yes...a lot of families do it, Ethiopia will allow it, you can do that. Sure. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>Will it take a lot longer to get a referral for two children? </i>It will take longer probably, but not crazy long, and things are looking better all the time anyway. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>So, are you saying you are <u>open</u> to two children or you are <u>seeking </u>to adopt two? </i>We want to be a family of 5.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>Will you please write down that we WANT to adopt two children? That is what we are requesting. Two children born after May 31, 2011. Boys or girls or one of each. We would like to adopt two. </i>Okay, great.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>How many of those fees are doubled? </i>Most of them you just pay half on the second child. And of course you travel only 2 times and not 2 for each child. One home study fee. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>Did we just tell him we wanted to adopt two children? </i>Yes, and I am so excited about that. </span><br />
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<i><span style="color: #3d85c6;">Why two?</span></i><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>Can I physically and emotionally handle being a stay at home mom to what will probably be three toddlers? </i>Not on my own..but with God and my husband and an army of friends, yes I think I can. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>Can we afford it? </i>We are really leaping out in faith and trusting that God will provide and we have already seen evidence of that within 24 hours of our meeting. </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;"><i>What about Brody, do I feel bad that two more children will take even more attention away from him? </i>These babies that will be ours one day are<u> orphans</u> right now. God gives mommies and daddies the ability to spread out their love to many children. I am praying for Brody's sweet heart to understand and he love his new siblings! </span><br />
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<span style="color: #3d85c6;">So there it is..we are in the process of adopting two children. Our prayers are for our <i>children</i> in Ethiopia. </span>abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-48409179377426753912012-07-06T10:42:00.001-07:002012-07-06T10:42:36.744-07:00The MoneyMany people don't know a lot about adoption and the process that families go through. What a lot of people do know is that it is not cheap. As adoptive parents we have put our trust in God that He will give us the strength to get through the waiting, the love and wisdom to get through any hardships that may come, the comfort to deal with the sadness and loss involved, and yes..that He will provide the funds to make it possible.<br />
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God has blessed Ryan with a great job and through that many opportunities. We have a great home that we have been able to improve as we wish. I get to stay home with Brody. We have been able to avoid debt and pay off my school loans. He gave Ryan a brain that seems to understand numbers and how to manage money, and he gave me enough respect for Ryan to just listen to what he told me about when we should spend money and how much to save. We have made some impulsive decisions and probably wasted money along the way. There have been some unexpected expenses that we were prepared for but not really planning. (Like Brody having to stay at Vanderbilt for 3 days because he wouldn't produce wet diapers) We have managed and done well. That being said, adoption is expensive. We need God's help!<br />
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<i>How are you going to pay for it? </i><br />
<span style="background-color: white;">This is a common question that we are either asked, or that some people probably want to ask. So I will answer it.</span><br />
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<li>Budget means something a little different now, and going over is frowned upon </li>
<li>We have some stuff for sale on Craigslist and Ebay..we don't need a lot of the stuff we have and if we can make a few dollars on it..great</li>
<li>Laura Beth Lamb is hosting a Thirty One party for us and DONATING all of her commission to our adoption. If you would like to place an order with her..follow this link.
<a href="http://www.mythirtyone.com/shop/catalog.aspx?eventId=E1925892&from=DIRECTLINK">http://www.mythirtyone.com/shop/catalog.aspx?eventId=E1925892&from=DIRECTLINK</a></li>
<li>You don't have to pay for adoption all at once, it is broken down into different fees over the whole process. Right now we have NO idea when we will travel to Ethiopia so we can't buy those tickets now.</li>
<li>147 Million Orphans has an amazing program that helps adoptive families by selling their gear and giving the proceeds to those families..and we are one of them. If you would like to purchase some really pretty clothing or accessories, please click the button on the side of this blog (the t-shirt) and anything you order will help us bring that baby home! Please share this blog with your friends if they are interested in purchasing something..make sure they follow the link on the blog! </li>
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<br /></div>abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-45668930301023308752012-07-03T09:32:00.000-07:002012-07-03T09:32:53.090-07:00HomeLet me just share with you all that when people tell you that adoption will teach you patience..they are right. This is not a complaint, it's just a fact. We were fully aware of what we were getting into so we are using it to let God mold us into stronger Christians. The end result of this adoption will be wonderful, but the things that have to happen for our family to grow this way, are anything but wonderful. There is going to be heartache, abandonment, loss, grief, fear, and sadness. The word orphan is not happy, its sad. But if anyone can bring beauty from the ashes..its God.<br />
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As I mentioned before, some parts of adoption are a little hard to wait on. Ryan and I get really excited if we get an e-mail from our agency (which they are great about communication, they don't make us wait). So there was definitely some jumping up and down and thanksgiving when we found out that <u><b>our first home study visit was scheduled</b></u>! The NEXT step, progress, more validation that this is real. We prayed hard for our home study to be scheduled within a certain amount of time and God answered YES to that!<br />
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What is a home study? Well, I will know more in about a week..seeing as I haven't been involved in one yet, I may not be the best person to answer this question. However, I can share with you what we have read and been told about them. Our awesome case worker will come and visit us in our very clean home next week. He will ask us a lot of questions and probably answer a lot of questions. An assessment will be made about the suitability of our home for raising children. We'll give a tour, we'll probably get personal, and I don't plan on being offended for one moment. Right now I am not even nervous because I feel we have nothing to hide or to be ashamed of. We are NOT perfect. But pretty much all we want to do is love another child and whatever we need to do to make that happen..it's fine with me.<br />
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The adoption process isn't perfect and smooth all the time. I am sure there are things that some people would change about it. We are going to endure though, because, once again..end result..wonderful. The other night I was lying in bed just crying...adoption hormones. I was thinking about some of the really sad things in this world. My child who may suffer from things ranging from hunger to abuse. People who just die too young. Homelessness. Cancer. Child Soldiers. Adultery. Murder. Poverty. Sin. Hell. Sometimes if you open your eyes to the sad things in this world it can be like a weight just crushing you. But sometimes, it can make you so grateful that God designed something to come after this life.<br />
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<span style="background-color: white;"> There is not a good answer for "Why?" The only one I can come up with is </span><i style="background-color: white;">This is Not home. </i><br />
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So, like Ryan and I know that our new family will be worth it all, so is this life. No matter how tough.<i>.Heaven will surely be worth it all. </i><br />
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-2495416300441867962012-06-24T14:24:00.001-07:002012-06-24T14:24:57.721-07:00Why Ethiopia?<br />
First of all, we cannot express to you the joy it gives us to have the encouragement, support, and mostly prayers of so many people as we begin this walk. The outpouring of love just showed us once again, that this is the right thing for our family RIGHT now. No questions..this is God's will for us. So thank you, to anyone who has shown your support to us or even if it was just before God and we haven't had the chance to talk yet, thank you!!<br />
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When we shared our news with family and friends it usually went something like this...after some sort of clever or not so clever lead in...<br />
"Well, we are in the process of adopting from Ethiopia!"<br />
Some people just immediately got excited.<br />
Others responded with "Really?! Tell me more.."<br />
Some of my favorite times were when people hugged us and said, that is great, or even teared up.<br />
But of course, no matter what the initial reaction..for many people, there were questions.<br />
We would like to answer some of those questions starting with "Why Ethiopia?"<br />
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Let me just first say that a child in need of a family, whether they be in my city or on any of the other continents, is a precious child of God who deserves to be loved, cherished, fed, clothed, and taught about Jesus. While it's tough to say exactly how many orphans there are in the world (see <a href="http://www.unicef.org/media/media_45279.html" target="_blank">here</a>, <a href="http://www.globalorphancrisis.com/?page_id=93" target="_blank">here</a>, and <a href="http://www.christianalliancefororphans.org/2010/08/09/global-orphans-the-numbers-2/" target="_blank">here</a>), the estimates in the references sited range from 132,000,000 to 163,000,000. Regardless, the number is staggering and we had to pick a place to start. We picked Ethiopia.<br />
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Bottom line answer is this..there is a great need for orphans in Ethiopia. Unfathomable. Heartbreaking.<br />
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We felt led to choose this country and went with it. I was so blessed to work at Harpeth Hills Preschool before Brody was born and through that job I was able to watch 3 different families bring home sweet children from Ethiopia. I was familiar with the process and felt comfortable with it.<br />
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We borrowed this video from another adoptive family, but I think it just about sums everything up.<br />
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Our<i> first</i> choice for our<i> second</i> child is <b>adoption</b>.<br />
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The Hysmiths have begun the process of adopting from Ethiopia! If your geography is a little poor, that would be Africa.<br />
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For as long as we can remember, adoption has been a part of our family plan. The <i>where</i>, <i>when</i>, and <i>how</i> <i>many</i> were usually not really something we thought about and just put the topic of adoption in the file drawer labeled "someday." Soon after Brody was born we naturally (as good, content people do) started planning and talking about the next steps for our family. How close together do we want children, where will we live when we have more than one child (because there is NO way our kids can share a room and we have to have a guest room..duh), and what kind of car should we get to accommodate our rapidly growing family?<br />
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During this time of "planning" I was<strike> following</strike> internet stalking some people's adoption stories. I would share with Ryan all of the triumphs and the sad moments that these families were experiencing and then I would cry big tears when I saw their pictures of airport homecomings and meeting their precious babies for the first time. I looked at families I knew and searched the blogosphere, looking for that perfect answer on "When is the best time to adopt?" As I did this, I got a little "unsettled."<br />
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What started out as a whisper started to become a shout.We began to pray for direction and for an answer to our question, "God, is this what you want for us right now?" Through God's Word and by the example of some people we really respect we have come to know these things:<br />
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<li>The things of this Earth will pass away. The things we are able to accumulate don't matter at all. The things we do to affect other people and bring others to His Kingdom <i>really</i> matter.</li>
<li>Skin color does not matter. Any kind of prejudice or racism is a sin. We need to look at people the way God does, as precious children of His.</li>
<li>God has a plan for everyone and He guides us each step of the way. </li>
<li>We have been given <u><b>so</b></u> much...and we feel like much is required of us.</li>
<li>We love being a mommy and daddy and that is not going to be limited to children that grow in my tummy.</li>
<li>God has aligned my and Ryan's hearts and minds for a reason. </li>
<li>The more a married couple studies and meditates on God's Word together, the closer they become. </li>
<li>RIGHT NOW is the best time to answer God's call for you. Whatever it is, if you feel a little tug or urging to do something, right now is a great time to start that. </li>
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So now....We wait. We pray. We hope. We love. We trust. We work.We grow. We pray. We wait. We pray. We pray. We pray. </div>
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<br />abby hysmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04325660787502008746noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3237859982481664041.post-8837989868840350672012-06-18T18:36:00.002-07:002012-06-18T20:24:13.364-07:00Brody is ONE!I cannot believe my itty bitty baby boy is ONE year old.<br />
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A few words about Brody</div>
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He is almost always perfect when we are out in public. He's a good boy during church and I hope he is learning that sometimes little boys need to sit still and remain quiet. Brody loves people and he smiles a lot, which makes me think he will be friendly to everyone..which is what we will teach him to do. He loves to carry stuffed animals and blankets around, which shows me his tender side, even though he's a boy. </div>
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This has been the best year of my life. Ever. I have learned so much by having this new person in my life. Throughout this year I have probably been more tired than ever before and more scared than ever before. But I truly believe that this little boy in my life has helped me to grow closer to God and see clearer than I ever have before. </div>
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I am naturally a little (really) lazy and sometimes (often) selfish. But you see, when you are a mother, especially of an infant, you cannot be either of those things. At least on the outside. So, this girl who is a procrastinator at heart and self centered in my thoughts, would get up out of bed when her baby cried, she would hold him all day long if that is what he needed, she would rock him lovingly and pray for him at 4 am and smile at him as he fussed about who knows what? I have given so much to my son, physically and emotionally and I would do everything I can to please him. I finally realized that these traits I am learning as a mother, are not only intended for my child. My husband deserves unselfishness too and a woman is to work from before sun up to beyond sun down (Proverbs 31) to serve her entire household. What I learned this year is this...it's not..about..ME. I am a true work in progress but at least my "light" is finally on.<br />
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A few facts about Brody<br />
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<li>He loves fruit, of any kind, especially berries, but we think they make him spit up</li>
<li>Pluto is his favorite stuffed animal</li>
<li>He giggles a lot</li>
<li><i>Polar Bear, Polar Bear What Do You Hear?</i> is his favorite book</li>
<li>His hatred for his car seat wore off at about 6 months and he is now pleasant to ride with</li>
<li>He's a pretty great sleeper at night..naps are dependent on the day</li>
<li>Bath time and now the pool are pretty exciting</li>
<li>The stroller...not really his favorite place to be</li>
<li>He loves tiny things in his hands, preferably one for each hand</li>
<li>Pointing is his new skill, sometimes this is helpful other times, extremely confusing</li>
<li>He says 5 words, uh-oh, Mama, Dada, Bye Bye, and Hey</li>
<li>Pacifiers are our friend</li>
<li>He has the sweetest smile and shares it often</li>
<li>He loves the ginormous bear that his daddy got him for his birthday</li>
<li>Being outside is always better than being inside</li>
<li>He likes to eat</li>
<li>TV may as well not exist</li>
<li>Music makes him happy</li>
<li>Books are our current favorite activity</li>
<li>The noise machine helps him sleep and entertains him during the day</li>
<li>He can open and close the doors in our house</li>
<li>The toilet is not safe just because the lid is down </li>
<li>He can pull 100 tissues out of a Kleenex boy in about 10 seconds</li>
<li>You better watch him if he's playing in the pantry, there might just be oatmeal all over the floor if you don't</li>
<li>He gets SO excited when daddy comes home</li>
<li>Brody gets lots of special gifts from his 4 grandparents and his Uncle Ross</li>
<li>He finally realized that toys are for playing with and not just for taking up space</li>
<li>He has a mommy and daddy who love him SO much</li>
<li>If he grows up to be like his daddy, he will be doing just fine</li>
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Some photos from his party..thanks for all his sweet friends who came!</div>
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We had some sweet newborn pictures under these hydrangeas!</div>
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He liked the cupcake a lot!</div>
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All he kids with the bear</div>
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sweet Tinley</div>
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We don't get to see this cutie very often, love her and her parents..Lauren, Joseph, and Elise</div>
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Nate, Andrea & Lexi biked over</div>
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Really hard to get 2 babies to look!</div>
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Grady is a sweet heart!</div>
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